POLITICS AND CONSPIRACIES 
ARE AN AWFUL MIX

   It was the 4th of July, and I was at a traditional barbecue with some people, most of whom I knew, and a few I didn't. It was supposed to be festive, but because of politics it became depressive.
   The guy came out of nowhere. I had never met him before, but he seemed like a nice person. He was my age and of similar background. We were introduced by a mutual friend and immediately began talking about similar interests, like family and sports.
   All was going well until he turned the subject towards politics. It began with him mentioning the children being separated from their parents at the border, which has been the number one story for some weeks now.
   "I sympathize with parents who have their children taken away from them," he said as I politely nodded in agreement. "But the law is the law, and they're coming in illegally."
   Uh oh.
   I should have walked away right then and there, and my night would have been fine. I could have celebrated the birth of our country in peace. Instead, against my better judgment, I got drawn into a political argument that bothered me for the rest of the night.
   We've all been warned to avoid talking politics these days. It obviously depends on whom you're talking to, and in this case I picked the wrong guy. He exhibited everything that is wrong with this country during these turbulent times, and left me with the sense that we're in big trouble.
   It's not because we disagreed. Nothing wrong with that. It's because he left me with no hope of reasonableness. He had no sense of decorum, no appetite for logic. He had gone off the deep end, and there was no turning back.
   "Do you know the Clintons are responsible for 72 deaths, all of whom died under mysterious circumstances, " he announced after he had exhausted his argument for the legitimacy of children being torn from their parents. "It was 49 people, but now it's up to 72."
   I'm serious. This man, who looks like me, has a family like me, is educated like me---believes the Clintons murdered 72 people. That's how much he hates them.
   "Check the facts," he cried when I told him that was the most ridiculous thing I'd ever heard. "It's all documented."
   He was adamant in his conspiratorial convictions. No argument could sway him. Anyone who disagreed with him was simply naive. He had researched it and researched it, and the facts were the facts.
   Then he jumped to Obama, claiming the birth certificate he produced in 2011 to quell the birther movement was forged.
   "Do you know the Health official for the state of Hawaii who verified the birth certificate was killed in a plane crash only months later?" he asked. "Coincidence? I don't think so."
   So now Obama was apparently a murderer, too. I couldn't take it anymore.
   "You've lost all credibility with me," I told him. "I can't continue this discussion. We're done."
   I walked away, thoroughly depressed about the state of American politics. And it has nothing to do with whether you're liberal or conservative. This guy happened to be right-wing, but there are just as many conspiracy theorists who lean far left. They're all part of the problem.
   In fact, a Washington Post national poll asked whether voter fraud would be the reason their preferred candidate lost. 50% of Republicans said yes, but so did 44% of Democrats. Another poll showed that Republicans were just as likely to believe that Obama was born abroad as Democrats were likely to believe that 9/11 was an inside job, orchestrated by Bush operatives.
   Almost everyone apparently loves a conspiracy. The problem is that conspiracies defy logic, and without logic we can't have intelligent, meaningful discussions that at least have the possibility of leading somewhere.
   That's what upset me. This man, who seemed intelligent and articulate, was so ridiculously unreasonable. He gave me no hope, not only for me to convince him of an argument, but for him to convince me.
   For some reason, as I later sat and watched the fireworks explode in the sky to celebrate the founding of our beautiful country, I found that to be incredibly sad.
 

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